The coolest concept discussed in last weeks class was Cooley’s concept of the look-glass self. This concept believes that; what we think of ourselves depends on what we perceive others think of us. For example, “I feel about me the way you think of me,” so if someone thinks you’re intelligent your actions tend to reassure that. We allow others to shape our self through their judgments. Some examples of this in my own life include: the fact that sometimes people call me a nerd, and that judgment affects my self-image, because it makes me behave in a certain way that makes that judgment true (such as study all day long). Another example is when people tell me I’m really tall. This judgment has resulted in me avoiding heels. All I wear now are flat bottom shoes, because I don’t want to be really tall, I take it as a negative.